The Leader Mindset #1

Old-School Leadership Is Dead! Let’s Bust the Biggest Myths Holding Leaders Back.

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Andy Noon, PhD
March 02, 2025

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Old-School Leadership Is Dead! Let’s Bust the Biggest Myths Holding Leaders Back.

Leadership myths are misconceptions and misunderstandings of what effective leadership is. They remain common in today’s workplaces because:

  1. They come from outdated leadership models that treated employees as expendable.

  2. Many organizations still see leaders as all-knowing heroes who must single-handedly solve problems.

  3. Some myths endure because past leadership practices are blindly repeated, even when they no longer fit today’s challenges.

This article will debunk eight widespread leadership myths and offer recommendations to help leaders navigate these fallacies.

Myth 1: Leaders Should Have All the Answers 

The first myth we must debunk is that leaders should have all the answers. In reality, expecting a leader to know everything is unrealistic. The abundance of information in the world today makes such an expectation impossible. Instead, successful leaders continuously learn, stay informed about critical issues, communicate transparently, and empower their team members to be experts. Leaders earn credibility and trust when they are vulnerable enough to admit they don’t have all the answers and lean on their team for help. Practice the phrase, “I don’t know, but I will find out.”

Myth 2: Leaders Cannot Have Work-Life Balance

Leaders must work 80-hour work weeks to stay ahead is a myth. Undoubtedly, it is challenging for leaders to balance their professional and personal lives, but it's not impossible. Many highly successful leaders achieve work-life balance by being master delegators, focusing on deep work during peak energy times, focusing on the "Big Rocks,” eliminating tasks, meetings, and functions with little value, and prioritizing family time. It's incredible how much time can be freed when unnecessary work is eliminated. Remember: A leader running on empty will have a team running on fumes.

Myth 3: Being Visionary is Only Important in the C-Suite 

We can all think of the charismatic, visionary CEO like Steve Jobs and assume you can’t do that. “OMG, I don’t have an inspirational vision, so visionary leadership is not for me!” However, research on Transformational Leadership finds that having a vision is critical for leader effectiveness at all levels. Leaders enhance engagement and motivation when communicating a compelling purpose. The exciting thing about vision skills is that they can be learned and improved with practice. You can build these skills by translating a job’s purpose to the mission, communicating an inspiring change, and explaining an exciting future. Creating a compelling vision is a skill to be honed throughout a leader’s career, not just when they reach the top. Don’t wait, create a vision NOW! 

Myth 4: Don't Invest in Employee Development Because They Will Leave 

Another common myth is that investing in people’s development will lead to them leaving the organization for better opportunities. This is a harmful and dangerous misconception. One of the most frequently cited reasons for turnover is a lack of personal development. Sadly, organizations create the opposite outcome by believing this myth – people are likelier to leave organizations because they do not receive development. Ways to develop people and keep them from leaving include communicating their value, outlining a potential career path, granting them autonomy, having open and honest career discussions, and creating high-impact stretch assignments. Start today - Ask each team member how they want to develop.

Myth 5: Leaders Should Only Focus on Their Strengths 

How could this be a myth? We constantly hear that people should focus on using their strengths. While it's crucial to leverage one's strengths, only focusing on strengths can be a flawed leadership strategy. About 50% of leaders fail because of a critical flaw or derailer, not due to missing strengths. Leaders should focus equally on using their strengths and minimizing or working around their weaknesses or potential derailers. One way to do this is to use feedback or objective assessments to enhance self-awareness. Self-awareness is the antidote to derailment.

Myth 6: Leaders Must Be Extremely Confident to Be Successful 

TV and movies are filled with the hero boss syndrome. When times are tough, the aggressive leader simply steps in and tells everyone what needs to be done. While confidence and courage are necessary for making difficult organizational decisions, overconfidence often leads to poor decision-making due to underestimating risks and ignoring other’s input. Research also shows lower leader confidence can enhance conscientiousness and focus, resulting in successful outcomes. With the right mentorship, feedback, and support, confidence can be built for long-term success.

Myth 7: Development is a Waste for Experienced Leaders

The seventh myth is that personal development is a waste of time for experienced leaders. This misconception stems from arrogance and a belief of having "made it.” A lack of a growth mindset can lead to an untimely failure. Being an effective leader is a never-ending journey, even for the most accomplished leaders. At the senior level, development may focus more on mentoring, coaching, and stretch experiences. As soon as you stop growing as a leader, you become obsolete.

Myth 8: Leaders Shouldn't be Vulnerable 

The final myth is that leaders shouldn't be vulnerable. This myth stems from an antiquated belief that vulnerability equals weakness. In reality, research supports the importance of leadership authenticity, which includes vulnerability. Leaders can positively show vulnerability by sharing their thoughts and feelings, asking others for feedback, transparently discussing work issues, sharing personal information, owning up to mistakes, and discussing their values and beliefs. Being authentic builds TRUST.

I am positive many other leadership myths are commonplace in today’s organizations. As we strive to become better leaders, it is critical to debunk these myths and leave them in the dust.

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